I learned something after almost 42 years yesterday, I know what my worth is in a relationship/marriage. It took almost 42 years to realize it, but that is okay I now know. If you don’t know your worth, write down what you want in a relationship, how someone should treat you, the things you like, the things you don’t, the type of support you need (emotionally, physically and financially). This will determine your worth. Do you like when a man holds the door for you? Do you have friends you can go to and they actually listen? Do your friends know who you are and support you in the decisions you make? Are you hanging around negative people? This is for all relationships, family, friends, boyfriends, husband, wife, children, coworkers, etc. Do you know your worth? Once you come up with that list, you may need to start moving people out of your life or express to them how you want to be treated, guess what this will do? Make you a happier person. Why should you be sad or miserable for the sake of someone else? You shouldn’t. Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes you have to make hard decisions, but those hard decisions will make you happy in the long run. Part of living a healthy lifestyle is being happy.